Today I’m a bit aggressive, and that’s a good thing. For most of my life I have been told to be obedient and follow orders to make people happy, but they still weren’t happy. It has taken me a long time to learn not to care what anyone thinks, and to focus on my happiness. I wish this freedom for everyone.
One of the biggest personal achievements for me is that I used to be scared to confront and I held onto the pain in order not to make waves. What I’ve realized is that most people that act in this manipulative or self-centered way aren’t ever checked, and they need to be. This is why they get so angry when they are called out. Now, I call them out louder and give no ground. Whatever their response is, it doesn’t affect me like it used to.
It’s funny when people do hold onto their anger from being called out. This means you have struck the nerve and hit the truth. Good for you! Now you get to live rent free in their head for eternity. I have upset a lot of people and have been doxxed and harassed for it, and their response just proves how right I was. It doesn’t upset me, it upsets them. I have no anger or resentment for any person who’s done me wrong, but they have anger at me for calling out their actions. It’s funny. It makes me giggle.
I pity people who hold onto their anger. They refuse a world of love and choose to torment themselves with an invisible enemy. Sounds horrible.
What is interesting is that it is more often men that hold onto their resentment than women. It is their entitlement and that control being questioned that infuriates them. Men don’t like their narrative to be challenged and I will challenge it if it is contrary to the truth.
I see too many people who can’t handle the reality of their actions and they refute it so vehemently. Call them out. This world is suffering from an entitlement problem and the more people that hold bad actors accountable, the better it will be for society.
If your response to being called out is to attack, it is because you are triggered from the truth. Instead, listen to the person who brought the issue to you and have a dialogue.
Learn! Be compassionate! Their feelings matter! Grow!
Guess what? When you listen to another person who is hurt by your actions and you take responsibility, everyone heals and grows from that experience. If you attack a person who you have wronged, you create further negativity and hurt that won’t be relieved until that person removes you from their life because you don’t truly care for them.
To all the timid and meek people, it is your time to let those who have hurt you know how they have. Empower yourself! Your feelings matter and are valid. If a person attacks you when you share the pain they have caused you, they aren’t worth any further energy.
Be aggressive. Be ungovernable. Don’t hold in your pain. Don’t let anyone oppress you and if they do, let them have it!
Fight for Palestine!
From the river to the sea, Palestine will be free. May the whole world be free.
BE UNGOVERNABLE. Check people. Protest. Volunteer. Organize. Donate. Contact elected officials. Share the stories from Palestine. Share the news from Palestine. Share the history of Palestine. Please extend the same energy to other areas of the world experiencing atrocities and genocide- Sudan, the Congo, West Papua, Armenia, and the Uyghurs.